Ship has sailed

Having been doing yoga for almost a month, I've started seeing the magical benefits of it. Not only has my body become more alive and vibrant, my mind has started responding as well. Good ideas seem to be flowing easily and effortlessly.
Today during my practice I had the most genius vision yet.

The vision I had will be extremely beneficial to those who still think about their past relationships, partners who entered your heart but didn't exit even though no longer present in your life. For those who seem to be reminiscing about old flames and not being able to move on. We all have to believe in abundance of the Universe and it's eternal commitment to give us anything we desire as long as we are ready for it. You can't let in a new relationship if your heart is not free and ready to welcome a new love. No matter how beautiful and meaningful a relationship might have been it's in the past. And past is just a memory but if constantly reminded it takes control of the present and steals away from the future. I do believe that we need to release and believe that better and greater things will come along. Life is a journey and a short one. We need to be present to enjoy it to the fullest.

So here is my vision that you could all apply in order to release any past relationships and be ready to welcome a new partner into your life.

I imagined a beautiful island with palm trees, blue water and white sandy beach. There was a ship by the shore, white ship that was getting ready for a long journey. Then I saw all of the partners I let into my heart, the men who I would still think of and maybe deep down regret that it didn't work out. Maybe even think that there was still a chance with one of them, and especially the ones I didn't have closure with. They all boarded the ship and I knew that they were sailing far far away for good. That I would never see them again. I waived good bye, I even had tears in my eyes, I wished them all good luck and be happy wherever their journey takes them. I did it sincerely. Then as the sun was coming down over the ocean the ship went on its journey and out of my life, out of my heart.

I felt a tremendous sense of relief and so light that I could almost fly. I was happy. As I turned back I saw a beautiful resort with lots of lights, and people smiling at me. They drew to me and put pink flowers in my hair, they put on a red dress on me and lead me to the fire set up in the middle. Beautiful music was playing and we celebrated my liberation. I knew with the ending I started a new beginning...

That was a detailed scenario I experienced but you can vary it to your taste. The most important thing is to truly experience it, see it as clearly as watching a movie. I know it could be hard for many, so that's where yoga and meditation step in. At first you might feel lonely as you've got used to thinking of someone and having comfort in resorting to that person in hopes for love. But this imaginary comfort is exactly what's keeping you from letting in new love and perhaps the most important love of your life. Also it's important to let go off any hurt and resentment. It's important to forgive all including yourself. No one deliberately wants to hurt anyone. Any relationship is a lesson for both and is a blessing for our soul's growth.
I wish you all good luck in your ending for I believe there is a beautiful beginning awaits each one of us. Namaste.

Burning questions answered, Part IV

"I don't mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it"
Marilyn Monroe

Me: Earlier you said "I would want someone strong, independent, honest, loving etc. I need to feel if I leave this world that you are strong to take care of yourself and my child.” I have a lot of girlfriends who are married and don't work, and everyone seems to be happy (at least to the world). And then I have girlfriends who are financially independent and are strong women but have difficulty finding a lifetime partner. The issue is almost always the same: They are too strong and independent.
So my question is do men REALLY want a strong woman with a career or just say it but choose the one who stays home and makes him the center of her world (allegedly).

Man: Yes, when it comes to dating you want a woman who is independent and strong but it changes in a marriage. If two people are working it could hurt a relationship because both parties are tired or busy. When a woman stays home, a man feels comfortable knowing that the kids are in good hands. He knows that when he comes home he can make love to his wife and not hear how tired she is from all day at work.

Me: But then it disagrees with what you said that you want a strong/independent woman who can support the family if something happens to you.. I am confused..

Man: Taking care of a family is an important responsibility. The difference is the women who Don't want to work at all. She should be able to go back to work if husband walks out on her and not look for another man to support her.

Me: Hmm.. But what if she says she wants to work but it really isn't true. How do you know? I have friends who only say it to their men but don't put in any effort.

Man: Communication is a big thing in this case. You need to share plans and ideas and always strive for growth.

Me (still confused and persistent): Communication is one thing. But reality shows me that it's women with no careers, no ambition that have a man who loves them and takes care of them. And then the women who are strong and independent (myself included) are too much to handle for the man's weak ego?

Man: Because what you say you want in life and what you actually get are 2 different things. He may want an independent woman but gets caught up with other things and then doesn't care about it too much. Most men settle in a relationship. Still it doesn't mean he WOULDN'T want a strong and independent woman.

Ok, I wasn't getting anywhere. It's a man's mind, it's a man's world. But one thing I clearly get is that men can say one thing but do the other. They can say they love you but go and sleep with another woman. They can say they admire you but go and marry the one who admires them. They can say they can't live without you but then go and live with the one who makes him her center of the world.

It's my understanding that most men can't handle strong women simply because there are not that many strong men. Only a strong man has control over his ego and is not afraid to have an equal partner who can be his lover in bed and business partner at the same time. But those are few and we still have to deal with the big E in our lives (man's Ego). Women who are good (and willing) actresses find a man to take care of them, women who don't have time or desire to play "male ego" games have challenges finding a partner. And women who refuse to play (me) will only see themselves with one of those few. Yet even if he is one in a million it's still worth waiting. Settling is never an option. Then it's living someone else's life and that's is the worst thing you could do to your soul. Might as well call it a day and go to a temple for the rest of your life.
But any woman (dependent, independent, strong, weak) wants to be a true woman. And only with a true man could she ever be.

Me, true self

Nite all,

It's late and I just wanted to share something very dear to my heart. I have two friends (they are a couple) with whom I feel the most myself. It's like me in my bed, completely open and exposed.. And only two of them share that special space where I am the most myself. I love them, we share our feelings and thoughts. We say anything we want to say and know we are understood, cause we are on the same wavelength. We do silly things, we say intimate things, we laugh and we have fun. It's us being as open as we can ever be.
I hope you all have someone like that in your life, cause when you're being your most true self with someone else you feel belonged. And that is what we all human beings constantly search for: to belong.

Sweet dreams.
Love & Peace.

Reminder

Nite all.

This is a reminder to think about the questions I asked you in my previous post! I know I am being pushy here, but I really want you to put in some effort too. This is for the highest benefit to all.
Before I take you to the next step, which is showing the methods and learning how to develop your Inner Sex Goddess, I want you to understand what it all means to you.
So please think about love, sex, sexuality and anything else that comes in the process:) let inspiration and your heart guide you.

here is another music video I absolutely love:

http://youtu.be/p_36_nrIUvw

Sex and sexuality, I

I would like to start this post with a question for you to answer (sharing on my blog is always welcome). Take your time, be honest.

What do Sex & Sexuality mean to you? What role do they play in your life and how do you feel about them?

Before you start thinking I would like to share my perception, just so you understand what I am talking about. 

Sex and sexuality are two different words with their own unique meaning. However for me, they are inseparable and complementary. Sex has never meant to me as a simple physical act/intercourse. It's rather a sacred union of body, mind and soul connected in the most natural and loving way. In other words, it's the highest level of balance between mind, body and soul that feels the most natural and loving.

I believe to truly enjoy sex it needs to be perceived as something sacred and given to us from God. In fact, there is a lot of evidence from the earlier religious works telling us that sex was considered the highest form of love by God's manifestation. The earlier works of Kabbalah didn't only consider sex sacred but also performed Sex Magick rituals to communicate with God (the Divine) to manifest their dreams and desires. And of course, the most convincing argument is that it's only thru sex that we are able to create new life in a natural way.

Sexuality is a state (a sensation if you will) necessary to make a sexual experience spiritual. Simply put, to reach the highest sexual satisfaction and connect to the Divine, you need to develop sexuality first. It could be developed in many ways and I'll be sharing with you my methods in the future posts, I promise. Trust me, I take this stuff seriously :) Simply because, anytime before a sexual experience (either by myself or with a partner) I feel that it's something magical and requires special preparation. I'll discuss it in a greater detail going forward. But for now I just want you to think about those questions I asked in the beginning.

Music might be helpful in your thought process:) here is a video I like but you can use your own, just make sure it's sensual. Have fun!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bUh99P4lYAM